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	<link>http://www.danceislove.com</link>
	<description>by Liz Miller: a memoir about relationships and dance.</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 23:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Couplehood and Singledom at The 930 Club by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2472&#038;cpage=1#comment-2049</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Mar 2013 04:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jen, thank you for being a longtime reader. Your comment feels judgmental to me but I will try to take it for the kind advice that you clearly meant it to be, and start over from here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jen, thank you for being a longtime reader. Your comment feels judgmental to me but I will try to take it for the kind advice that you clearly meant it to be, and start over from here.</p>
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		<title>Comment on About The Author by Eric Miller</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=978&#038;cpage=1#comment-1941</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 14:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Liz give me a call want to chat about business ideas</description>
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		<title>Comment on Love and Money, The Last Nine Years by Cristina</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2281&#038;cpage=1#comment-1756</link>
		<dc:creator>Cristina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Apr 2011 23:31:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazing. Just love this paragraph: "I would like to allow myself the choice of love over fear, the permission to focus on joy rather than the avoidance of pain.  Almost everyone that I talk to disagrees with this approach to life, but doesn’t someone have to do the experiment?"</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazing. Just love this paragraph: &#8220;I would like to allow myself the choice of love over fear, the permission to focus on joy rather than the avoidance of pain.  Almost everyone that I talk to disagrees with this approach to life, but doesn’t someone have to do the experiment?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Just Show Up by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2366&#038;cpage=1#comment-1567</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 22:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for reading.

I can put you in touch with some wonderful people in Madrid if you do decide to go.  I went to a fantastic English-teaching school called TtMadrid (www.ttmadrid.com).  The school served as kind of a home-base for me - as it does for a lot of Americans, Brits, Australians, Irish, etc.  Let me know what you decide :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for reading.</p>
<p>I can put you in touch with some wonderful people in Madrid if you do decide to go.  I went to a fantastic English-teaching school called TtMadrid (www.ttmadrid.com).  The school served as kind of a home-base for me - as it does for a lot of Americans, Brits, Australians, Irish, etc.  Let me know what you decide <img src='http://www.danceislove.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Just Show Up by E. M. Hedrick</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2366&#038;cpage=1#comment-1566</link>
		<dc:creator>E. M. Hedrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 17:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My dad and I used to howl at the moon together.  I'm really wanting to try out living in Madrid for awhile, the more I read your blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My dad and I used to howl at the moon together.  I&#8217;m really wanting to try out living in Madrid for awhile, the more I read your blog.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dancing and Drinking by Ahmed Cluster</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=81&#038;cpage=1#comment-1535</link>
		<dc:creator>Ahmed Cluster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 15:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for a very useful blog post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for a very useful blog post!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Night Out Salsa Dancing by Ulysses Mayhugh</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=1170&#038;cpage=1#comment-1532</link>
		<dc:creator>Ulysses Mayhugh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 21:30:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a test post. THanks!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Dance Is Love, pages 1-5 by anon</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2006&#038;cpage=1#comment-1503</link>
		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 11:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm impressed.  I had not expected a response, and especially not for my comment to still be here.  That reflects well on you.

My concern remains, but I'm very glad that you're at least thinking about it.  Something to add to your thoughts: if you're in a perfect position to help people, why are you offering "thin and happy" instead of "healthy and happy"?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m impressed.  I had not expected a response, and especially not for my comment to still be here.  That reflects well on you.</p>
<p>My concern remains, but I&#8217;m very glad that you&#8217;re at least thinking about it.  Something to add to your thoughts: if you&#8217;re in a perfect position to help people, why are you offering &#8220;thin and happy&#8221; instead of &#8220;healthy and happy&#8221;?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dance Is Love, pages 1-5 by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2006&#038;cpage=1#comment-1490</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 23:32:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Anonymous, you bring up some excellent points.  It's true I have struggled in the past with eating (and not eating!).  You must have been reading my blog all along, or at least have caught up on a lot of posts, and I want to thank you for that.

2007 was when my doctor actually - not my therapist - told me she thought I had an eating disorder.  She was right.  In 2008 I decided to start eating correctly.  In 2009 began a 15-month sojourn in Spain which straightened me right out.  (Red meat, red wine, running in the park and - here's the shocker - plenty of rest!) Now fifteen pounds heavier and much more educated about what it takes to stay healthy AND happy, I feel as if I am in a perfect position to help people out.  You see, I used to believe that in order to look good one had to suffer.  Now I know that isn't the case, and I have honestly developed some great techniques.  For example, lots of people don't have time to go to the gym, and I'm great at rogue exercise plans.  I speak to so many people every day who wish they could be fitter and healthier and honestly don't know how to do it.  I know I can help them.

Nevertheless I appreciate your feedback very much.  It gave me pause and I will certainly leave it on the site and invite more comments from readers.

Thanks again,

Liz</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Anonymous, you bring up some excellent points.  It&#8217;s true I have struggled in the past with eating (and not eating!).  You must have been reading my blog all along, or at least have caught up on a lot of posts, and I want to thank you for that.</p>
<p>2007 was when my doctor actually - not my therapist - told me she thought I had an eating disorder.  She was right.  In 2008 I decided to start eating correctly.  In 2009 began a 15-month sojourn in Spain which straightened me right out.  (Red meat, red wine, running in the park and - here&#8217;s the shocker - plenty of rest!) Now fifteen pounds heavier and much more educated about what it takes to stay healthy AND happy, I feel as if I am in a perfect position to help people out.  You see, I used to believe that in order to look good one had to suffer.  Now I know that isn&#8217;t the case, and I have honestly developed some great techniques.  For example, lots of people don&#8217;t have time to go to the gym, and I&#8217;m great at rogue exercise plans.  I speak to so many people every day who wish they could be fitter and healthier and honestly don&#8217;t know how to do it.  I know I can help them.</p>
<p>Nevertheless I appreciate your feedback very much.  It gave me pause and I will certainly leave it on the site and invite more comments from readers.</p>
<p>Thanks again,</p>
<p>Liz</p>
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		<title>Comment on Dance Is Love, pages 1-5 by anon</title>
		<link>http://www.danceislove.com/?p=2006&#038;cpage=1#comment-1486</link>
		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 11:41:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is  irresponsible for you to counsel people on weight loss.  You've never been fat (5 lbs at your wedding is nowhere near it, no matter what you apparently thought at the time).  Your therapist thinks you have an eating disorder (given what you've written, I would have to agree).  I know you need money, but please don't jeopardize other people's physical and mental health to get it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is  irresponsible for you to counsel people on weight loss.  You&#8217;ve never been fat (5 lbs at your wedding is nowhere near it, no matter what you apparently thought at the time).  Your therapist thinks you have an eating disorder (given what you&#8217;ve written, I would have to agree).  I know you need money, but please don&#8217;t jeopardize other people&#8217;s physical and mental health to get it!</p>
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